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Although I am bisexual (and even go so far as to label myself pansexual) all of my posts here have been very hetero centered. Although I have always had crushes, attractions, and sexual interest in women, I have not so much as kissed a girl. Considering that every 15 year-old cheerleader has, I am clearly old-fashioned. I actually want to kiss a girl because I want to fuck her, not get some jackass’s attention.
I have been on a few dates with women and had flirtations with them as well. In general, I have preferred women that are more butch. This is probably related to my submissive side. However, recently I have found myself very interested in a few women who are femme, very very femme. What is surprising about this, at least to me, is that my sexual dynamic changes. I want to top them. I want to be in control, or at least co-top them with a man.
This week a friend of mine requested my help with relaxing. I knew exactly what she was asking for though. In all of my sexual online relationships (don’t you judge me!) I have requested to be told what to do by men several times. Sadly, all but one have left me wanting (shout out to Sir!). I am not sure if it was hard for them to say what I wanted to hear, or truly hard for them to know what I wanted.
But I knew what she wanted. I knew because it was the same thing I had sought. I wanted to be told, in exact detail what to do. I wanted someone to control me over the internet. So here is what I sent her. Because it was my first time, I found myself being far shyer than any of my posts here would lead a person to believe.
I sent each of these in a text message.
You need to go take a hot bath.
Then, in the bath, you need to play with those gorgeous nipples of yours. Slowly at first, and then really pinching and tweaking.
When your breathing starts to get shallow, you need to reach down and start to play with your pretty little pussy.
When your clit starts to get really swollen, get the handheld shower attachment down, or push your ass up to the tub front.
Then, let the warm water rush over your clit, while you continue to play with your nipples. In about two to five minutes . .
ALL your stress will be gone, and you will be off for a lovely night of sleep, with a deliciously wet/clean pussy for tomorrow!
After I was done, I went to the bathroom, and my own pussy was drenched. Knowing that I had just given her what I had been seeking myself was so fucking powerful I wanted to find her, fuck her, pull her hair, bite her nipples, and tie her up like a little slut.
Clearly, a whole new world has opened up. In fact, I need to go now, and read up on rope bondage! :)
:D
Lovely lovely blog. As a bisexual woman who has had a few encounters with women I have to add that with a man I am totally submissive but with a woman I take on a Dom role and like to take control and tell her/show her exactly what I want her to do or just do to her what I want to do. Very passionately! But I do seek the opposite of a man.. control me, make me, take me! MJ
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Very, very interesting….and HOT :)
On my, oh my, yes that sounds so very delicious. I too fantasize about women, but have never even so much as kissed one although I would really like to find the right opportunity to do so.
I too find myself thinking of being with a woman in more dominant terms, although the idea of a powerful, totally in control woman making me crawl on my knees to her is pretty fucking hot too!! Just the other day, however, I found myself thinking about what it might feel like to fuck another woman with a strap on and I found myself rather turned on by how powerful that might feel.
Sigh..I just dont know how to find that opportunity for myself.
You will be pleased to know that this morning my fantasy involved you and your husband. You made me do things to him and you and it made me so powerless and so invigorated, maybe I should send you an email. The orgasm derived from that fantasy was amazing…
Dee, YOU WILL send me that email!!
:)
Have you yet to kiss a woman? Honey, I so need to let you kiss me. I am bisexual and in need of some discipline. I have been a very naughty girl lately … looking for ways to express my self. My partner would not be happy with the things I imagine doing!
Vrose, I doubt your partner would be upset with what you are imagining. Tell them! You may be surprised!