I am an atheist, a feminist, and all around pain in the ass. I was not a very good wife, probably will not make a great girlfriend, but I am a wonderful friend. Sometimes with benefits. Sometimes not.

I am not looking for monogamy at this time. When I say this, understand that this means I will [...]

Combine these two videos :)

Long story short,  I am dating a man who is dating another woman. Which is fine. Duh. Non-monogamy. But he has not told the other woman about me, and it bothers me. It skeeved me out, and I was having a hard time realizing why until some lovely poly friends pointed out that it was [...]

The Lelo Siri, the Angry Birds of Vibrators

I am a bad sex blogger at times. Not because I have bad sex, or because I don’t write good (see what I did there?), but because I have a hard time being consistent with my writing. I am sure this makes me a less than desirable [...]

by showing me this tumblr, Fuck Yeah! Huge Penis.

Because I am nothing if not proactive, I am now on a few dating sites, such as OKCupid,Plenty of Fish, Fetlife, etc. Each of these has unique good points, but they all seem to have the same bad points – i.e. dudes sending messages that give a HORRIBLE first impression. There are several ways to [...]