Waking Up Right

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The wonderful thing about children finally being older is that they can watch TV on Saturday mornings while you go back to bed with your partner.

This morning, as we were cuddling (awww), he grabbed my head and pushed it underneath the covers. It started out as a very slow, soft, wet, blowjob, but then of course, I had to choke on it.

With all the hoopla about the horrors of pornography, and how it makes asshole men think that all women like to be spat on, come on, and choke on cock (yes, yes, and YES please!) what about the women like ME? The women who maybe saw something in pornography, got turned on a little watching something new, tried it, and fucking LOVED IT?? Are we allowed to express that gratitude?

For me, having a cock in my deep in my throat feels good for several reasons. I do like the actual choking, the feeling of not being able to breathe. Hot, and in the BDSM world, not too uncommon. But I also like the fact that the deeper you take a cock, the more slippery the saliva gets. The secret to successful deep throating is to go slow, relax your throat, and not fight the gag. The gag itself eventually becomes part of the pleasure. When the gagging becomes too much, pull the cock out of your throat, and use your hand to stroke it, as it will now be covered in the slipperiest spit ever! Then, when your throat has calmed down, repeat!

Of course, it is fine to stop there, but it is also possible to go on and develop a taste for irrumatio, the Roman word for throat fucking (thanks for the vocabulary word Matthew!) In this act, the person performing the oral sex actually just acts as a receptacle with their mouth and throat open. It can be done with the receiver on his/her back and the cock above them, the receiver’s head hanging off the bed with the person doing the fucking standing in front of them, or my personal favorite, the receiver sitting against a wall, while the other person stands up and fucks the mouth/throat with the head against the wall. This allows me to either play with my pussy, or have my hands pinned above me. Having my throat fucked hard with my hands pinned above me reminds me of the Nine Inch Nails song “Closer”, as it makes me feel closer to “god” than just about any other sex act.

Now as with anything like this, the person who is getting their throat fucked is the one in control in the beginning, and has to get comfortable with it. Also, some people will never want to do this, and that is perfectly FINE!! Luckily, there are enough orifices and fans of those orifices so that we can all get our needs met.

And as every sex writer in the world has said, communication and respect are the keys. If you want your partner to deep throat you, you have to COMMUNICATE that. And if they says no, you have to RESPECT that!

But for those of you whose perverted desires align perfectly in this area, happy gobbling!